Sunday, November 24, 2019

Emily's obituary from the Register Guard

Emily's obituary is in today's Register Guard (and we've posted it below). If you have any memories you'd like to share, please post them in comments here or on the Facebook post:

Emily Rose Monfort died November 10, 2019 in Seattle at University of Washington Medical Center. Her parents, Peg and Keith, were at her side holding her hands as she passed. She filled her 36 years with family, friendship, education, adventure, and a joyful love of life. Emily received a second double lung transplant on November 9th and never regained consciousness. She suffered massive organ failure and Peg and Keith made the decision to discontinue the heroic efforts to maintain her life. This is as she would have wished. The underlying cause of death was Cystic Fibrosis, which she had battled bravely and ferociously her entire life. Emily had received a first lung transplant in February 2009 and following seven very good years experienced three years of chronic rejection of those transplanted lungs.
Emily was born in Eugene, Oregon in 1983. She went to Edison Elementary, Roosevelt Middle School, and IHS at South Eugene High School, graduating in 2002. She received a Ford Family Scholarship to attend the University of Oregon.
Even though she faced daunting health issues from birth, she refused to be defined or limited by that. Always active, she did gymnastics and ice-skating, and loved the All-Comers track meets at Hayward Field and the sport of the season with KidSports. She took great joy in the freedom of running and jumping. Emily played soccer through her sophomore year, having the thrill of scoring a hat trick on her 16th birthday while playing for the South JV team. Emily was a snowboarder, skier, and rock climber, and at ten years old climbed the South Sister. She was at home in the outdoors and enjoyed camping in both the mountains and by the rivers.
While at UO she was very active with the Outdoor Program and had a work study position there. After her first year in college she worked as a river guide, drawing on her personal experience on the McKenzie, Deschutes and Rogue Rivers. She was an accomplished river runner, spending many weeks on wilderness rivers, and was proud to have rowed clients the length of the Rogue's Wild And Scenic section as a 19-year-old. She floated the Rogue River more than a dozen times and the Middle Fork of the Salmon and Colorado Rivers twice each. She relished the six weeks she spent with dear friends in the depths of the Grand Canyon on the Colorado River.
Emily loved to travel. She visited Belize, St. Thomas, and Europe. Following her first lung transplant, Emily traveled solo in Europe for six weeks, visiting many friends and countries, after which she returned to UO and received her BA in Humanities and Art History.
She was always happy at the Oregon Country Fair—she loved her fair family, her camp, the music and the food. Her creative spirit blossomed there and she delighted in creating costumes.
No mention of Emily is complete without talking about her beloved golden retrievers Buster and Gus. They were her steadfast companions, always there with unconditional love, comfort, and support.
We would like to express our thanks to the many people that were part of the medical community who helped Emily throughout her lifetime. Their care and devotion helped her to live. The last three years were very difficult and we are profoundly grateful for faithful and devoted friends that visited her. She so appreciated them.
As her parents, we humbly thank Emily Rose for being so brave and strong through the years of her pain and illness. No matter how difficult the struggle, she was always gracious and grateful for her care. It was the greatest honor to be her parents and take care of her. We will miss her forever.
Emily was deeply grateful to the organ donors and their families that helped her to extend her life. She would ask that you please consider becoming an organ donor, and if you do, share her story online with the hashtag #livelikeemily. Donations in her memory can be made to Cystic Fibrosis Foundation or Donate Life.
There will be a Celebration of Emily Rose Monfort's Life in 2020.



Sunday Nov 24, 2019 : Emily’s Obituary

Emilys obituary is in today’s Eugene Register Guard.    www.registerguard.com/legacy     That should get you there. Please share with others........thank you keith

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

Nov 19. Update

Hello friends and family...I’m uncertain if this will reach many but but please pass it along. I flew to Seattle this morning and tomorrow will return to Eugene with Emily’s ashes. The cremation took a few days and Peg and I needed to be home. I am staying with very dear friends, Lorinda and Russ. They embraced us last week and took us in. Tomorrow Bruce , a friend of forty five, years will drive Emily and I home. Bruce also wrapped us up last week.

We want folks to know that there will be a celebration of Emily’s wonderful and courageous life..we do not have plans yet. It will be after the first of the year. As a plan does develop we will let you know.

We a very grateful for the various cards, posts, comments etc that have come in. They have helped us a lot and I believe that they are meaningful to the many people that were part of the tapestry that was Emily’s life.

It’s impossible to grasp that her physical body is gone. We find her spirit filling our home and surrounding us completely and we miss her.

Thank you for the support......Keith and Peg.

Monday, November 11, 2019

Taking Emily Home

All......thank you for support.....it helps not just Peg and I but all who Emily touched....we are reeling but must plan .....Emily will be cremated here in Seattle. Then one last drive home.....there will be a celebration of her wonderous life sometime in the future..we miss her so very much.. keith & peg


Sunday, November 10, 2019

Emily’s Eyes........3:00pm........donate life

hello all. A little follow up. We miss Emily so very much. Thought we were ready but not so much. She was a petite woman who took up a lot of room with her big smile and zest for life. One of the very difficult moments as she died was knowing that she could not donate her organs. Her body was so savaged by the efforts to keep her alive post transplant that her organs were no longer viable. This would have completely pissed her off..A short time ago we received a call and we are pretty sure that her corneas have now been procured to be donated. This news would have thrilled her. She believed passionately in organ donations. Simple to her. Donated organs save lives. You do not need them anymore when you die. Help somebody else. Be a donor sign up now. I can feel her wanting me to say that. she was known to speak her mind. We can all be happy in this appalling sadness that her eyes ,at least, will help some one. They Will surely see the world in a new way.....keith

Not a FB or social media user...plz guide people back to this post as Emily would want to celebrate the donation of her eyes....or repost elsewhere..peg and I are grateful to everyone for the support pouring in. It means a lot and somehow Emily knows.

our hearts are broken

Dear Friends and Family,

Emily Rose died this morning at about 4:00 am November 10, 2019. She died of massive organ failure never having regained consciousness after transplant surgery. Peg and I made the decision to discontinue the heroic measures that were keeping her alive. This was as Emily wished. She was without pain or anxiety. She loved this life and fought fiercely but it was time to let go.She was so very weary. She wanted the second transplant it just did not work out. She would want you to remember her today. Maybe some tears but surely some laughter. We will always be surrounded by her awesome spirit but there is a awful hole in our world. It is the most wonderful gift to be her parents and we will forever miss her. It has been the sweetest gift to have shared the wonder of her life.

We love you dearly Emily Rose Monfort

Keith & Peg


Thank you to all for your support.

Saturday, November 9, 2019

6:00pm.....11.09........update

during last hours thr lung bypass machine has been hooked up it helps oxygenate and clean the blood...trying to reduce stress on new lungs..EKMO is the device...this was a pretty big deal involved a lot of folks....the hall was once again full of equipment and folks working for Emily......it’s calm at this moment but last hour was a bit frantic with BP and other issues......also dialysis is going....general surgeons stopped by to look at bandaging over her abdominal cavity .........we saw the transplant surgeon....... he reaffirmed how difficult the transplant had been.....what is going on is unusual and truly has everyone’s attention. Hopefully she can hold this level for the night.......each hour is a milestone and hard to grasp she hasn’t been in ICU for a full day........I think that the pattern is going to be ongoing ups and downs......think good thoughts.....I’m thinking the night will be long...we’ll be with Emily and tag team a little sleep in family room in cruel chairs ...trying not to snore or drool too much.....so blogging energy may be limited....keith and peg